What You Need to Know About Mediation in a Divorce Settlement

Posted on August 10, 2016 05:19pm
What You Need to Know About Mediation in a Divorce Settlement

What You Need to Know About Mediation in a Divorce SettlementMediation is a dispute resolution method often used to negotiate a divorce settlement. In divorce cases that involve mediation, the couple hires a third party who is neutral to both parties to serve as mediator. The mediator is responsible for helping the couple resolve issues through guided discussion.

The Benefits of Mediation

Although mediation can be one of the most amicable ways a couple can reach agreements in the divorce process, many do not understand the benefits of using such a method. Our Oregon divorce lawyers have listed some of the advantages of using mediation:

  • The parties involved in the marriage control the process rather than the court.
  • In many cases, mediation is less expensive than a series of court hearings or a court trial.
  • Mediation allows for parties to communicate openly, which can prevent future conflicts from occurring.
  • Mediation provides divorcing couples with freedom to tailor personalized solutions that you can’t get in court, using your own ideas about what you think is fair and will work for your particular situation.
  • Couples can still involve lawyers to provide legal counsel and advice through the mediation process.
  • Mediation is confidential, so public records will never store what occurs during your sessions.
  • Mediation can also help to preserve a good working relationship between the parties, which can be extremely beneficial, especially if you have children together.

The Limitations of Mediation

There are some situations in which mediation may not be successful. Typically, this happens when the spouses are simply unable to communicate effectively – if they are not talking, if every conversation turns into a fight, or if either party is unwilling to compromise.

Agreements reached in mediation are not legally binding until they are signed and filed with the court.

Should Couples Who Choose Mediation Still Involve Divorce Lawyers?

The short answer to this question is yes. Couples who choose to negotiate with one another through mediation should each seek legal representation from an experienced lawyer in order to avoid unnecessary problems and issues from arising. For instance, a spouse wishing to avoid paying spousal or child support or one who may be trying to delay proceedings may slow the mediation process. Your family law attorney can help both parties remain on track so that the entire divorce process is streamlined from start to finish.

Additionally, a family lawyer is permitted to attend any mediation sessions with you, if necessary, in order to ensure your rights and future are safeguarded. You may also wish for your attorney to prepare the final settlement agreement that will finalize your divorce.

Considering Divorce? We Invite You to Contact McKinley Irvin Today.

If you are considering filing for divorce, we encourage you to contact our team of Portland divorce attorneys at McKinley Irvin. We understand that family law related matters can be stressful, and we are here to stand by your side should you choose to work with us.

To speak with a member of our team, call us today or submit a consultation request online.

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